So I am confused as to why people say they understand and are going to change when they really have no intention to. why even say you will, if you're not then just be quiet or say so, don't lead others to believe that you truly want to change. I do not know if I can believe it when people say that to me now, after all the crap I have been through and heard before. It wouldn't make any sense to, right? If you say you are trying to change then at least TRY. I dunno, maybe I'm asking to much of people...